Why I don’t provide full service anymore

My shift to erotic massage milking table sessions has been interesting…

Introduction

Hello, dear readers. My name is Avery Fires, and today, I want to share a deeply personal story about my journey in the adult industry. This post isn't just about my career transition; it's about resilience, adapting to change, and finding new ways to express my passion for intimacy and connection.

The Beginning

For many years, I worked as a full-service escort. The experiences, the people I met, and the connections I made were all incredibly rewarding. I found joy in bringing pleasure and companionship to my clients, and I took pride in my work. I travelled around Australia, often to really remote regions to see clients. I adored doing this work. However life was about to tell me to slow down.

Health Challenges

in 2022 I was diagnosed with Endometriosis. This is a condition where the tissue that normally lines the inside of your uterus grows outside of it, causing intense pain and discomfort. Later on in my journey I was also diagnosed with both Vaginismus and Pelvic Floor Dysfunction. These are both condition involving painful dysfunction in the pelvic floor, which can make penetration painful or even impossible. Progessively over the years penetrative sex has become increasingly difficult for me.

The pain became unbearable at times, affecting not only my work but also my quality of life. There were days when I could barely get out of bed, let alone perform my duties as an escort. It became clear that continuing in full service was no longer a viable option for me if I wanted to continue to enjoy my work.

In 2023 I began to see the end of my Full Service career. Sex became unbearable and I was no longer enjoying my sessions. I was often dreading seeing new clients as I did not know what level of intimacy they desired and was always concerned about the pain i would be in during and after. I didn’t like feeling like I wasn’t living up to client expectations as many of them could tell I was in alot of discomfort.

Transitioning to Erotic Massage

Rather than leaving the industry entirely, I decided to pivot. I had always been passionate about the art of touch and the power of a good massage. I realised that erotic massage could be a way to continue providing intimacy and pleasure without exacerbating my health issues. I had been mentored by Olivia Sparkles in my years of working collaboratively with her.

I invested in a milking table, a special type of massage table designed for erotic massage. This allowed me to offer a unique and fulfilling experience to my clients while ensuring that I could work comfortably. The milking table became my tool for creating deeply relaxing and erotic experiences that didn't require full penetrative sex.

Embracing the Change

The transition wasn't easy. It required a lot of learning and adaptation. It required a huge shift in how I was operating, my skills and ensure I could offer the best possible service. I also had to educate my clients about the new services I was offering and help them understand why I made this change. One of the things that has been deeply upsetting for me is clients rolling their eyes, continually asking or begging for me to do full service. While I understand the desire for clients to want to pursue this service. There are many other escorts out there who do provide this. I openly and honestly state that I do not provide full service. It is sometimes distressing for me to be continually asked for something I was forced to retire. I hope that writing this blog post will create a bit more sensitivity from clients when engaging with sex workers who don’t provide full service. You dont know the story behind the reason. It is definitely preferred that you find someone else if you want full service instead of potentially upsetting someone. Especially if they specifically state “ No Full Service”.

Even though some clients have made the transition difficult. There has been many of my clients were incredibly supportive. They appreciated my honesty and were eager to experience the new services I provided. The feedback was overwhelmingly positive, and I found a new sense of fulfillment in my work. In fact I prefer providing an erotic massage. I can take the lead and curate the perfect experience every time. Since becoming a full time erotic massage provider I have recieved way more overwhelmingly positive feedback.

The Benefits of Erotic Massage

Erotic massage allows for a different kind of intimacy and connection. It's about more than just physical pleasure; it's about relaxation, trust, and a deeper form of connection. The milking table provides a comfortable and unique experience that many clients find intriguing and satisfying. There is no expectations or pressure. You can lie down and let the pleasure take hold instead of you (the client) being worried about performance.

Moreover, this transition has allowed me to manage my health better. I'm no longer in horrific pain while working, and I can focus on creating a safe and enjoyable experience for my clients. My mental and physical well-being have improved significantly, allowing me to continue working in an industry I love.

Conclusion

Retiring from full service was a difficult decision, but it was the right one for me. It allowed me to prioritise my health while still doing work that I find meaningful and fulfilling. My journey with my new disabled body has been challenging, but it has also led me to discover new passions and ways to connect with others.

I hope that by sharing my story, I can inspire others facing similar challenges to find their path and embrace change. Thank you for reading, and I look forward to continuing to share my journey with you.

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